Traits of a Seducer
Seducers are never self absorbed.
1. Their gaze is directed outward, not inward. When they meet someone their first move is to get inside that person’s skin, to see the world through their eyes. Self-absorption is a sign of insecurity; it is anti-seductive. Seducers manage to ignore their insecurities. They get absorbed in the world rather than themselves.
Seducers see themselves as providers of pleasure.
2. A seducer knows that people are waiting for pleasure – they never get enough of it from friends and lovers, and they cannot get it by themselves. A person who enters their lives offering adventure and romance cannot be resisted.
3. Most people feel they have constricted roles in life, which makes them unhappy at times. Seducers on the other hand, sees all of life as theater, everyone an actor. A seducer can be anyone and can assume many roles. They take pleasure in performing. This freedom of theirs and this fluidity in their body and spirit is what makes them attractive.