How to Reveal your True Feelings to a Man you Like
Women often fear turning a man off if they tell a man they like him. They may think telling a guy about their feelings of attraction is too forward and will scare a man away.
It is okay to reveal your feelings for a man you like if you choose the right time and setting. Also, you may want to consider waiting until you are at least almost sure he feels attracted to you in the same way.
Likewise, if you are not sure how a man will respond if you were to tell him you like him remember just to be confident. Always try to be yourself when you are around, as nervous as you are.
If you are planning to tell a man you like him there is a good chance he will respond favorably if he acts in certain ways. For instance, he may do one or more of the following:
—He will find an excuse to get to know you better. For example, he may ask you to study with him, or he may offer to fix something for you. He may even ask you out on a date.
—The man you likes you will most likely smile back at you and gaze into your eyes as you look his way.
—He might playfully tap you on the arm while laughing at your jokes.
—He seems interested in you as a person and he shares some of the same hobbies and goals as you.
There are several ways you can make it known to a guy that you like him. For instance, you can dress and act your best whenever you are around him-without overdoing it of course. Never forget the number one rule when attracting a man, which is to simply be you.
If you want to reveal to a man that you like him you may want to do so in one or more of the following ways:
—You can flirt with him a little or respond to his flirting. This might include complimenting his dress or hairstyle or joking around with him. Try to avoid overly-sexual comments until you have gotten to know him better and you are already starting a relationship.
—Point out some of his good qualities. For instance, you may mention to him that he is a hard worker.
—You can respond to any initiative he makes. For instance, if he asks you to go somewhere with him as either a friend or as a date you would want to take advantage of the opportunity.
—Responding to a goodnight kiss would give him a very indication that you like him as much as he likes you.
—You could ask him to go somewhere with you, such as to lunch or coffee. You may also ask him to fix something for you. If you are going to approach a man you may want to do so as a friend, and leaving the romantic preparations up to him.
—You can also simply say “I really like you” at the appropriate time. If you are not sure if you are ready to say this, you can start out by first saying that you enjoyed his company today. If he reciprocates, that is a good indication you can for sure tell him you like him.
Many women make the mistake of waiting too long to decide to tell a guy she likes him. This may be for a variety of reasons. Perhaps those women are afraid of taking another chance with a man or maybe they just do not want to make the first move.
However, if you are a woman in danger of losing your chance to reveal your feelings with a man it is wise for you to tell the person as soon as you can. If you hesitate, think about how you would feel if you saw that person with someone else and you had not taken the opportunity to let him know how you feel.